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First published in 2018 by Polity Press

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Acknowledgements

While writing this book, we've reflected a good deal on the topic of collective care in academic work. The project has been with us through some major personal and political struggles, which have become woven through the fabric of our work together.

We want to acknowledge and celebrate here the importance of kindness and collaborative support in research and writing. In the context of increasing pressure, audit and individualism in higher education, collective care and solidarity can challenge some of the assumptions of neoliberal managerialism and help to provide the breathing space to share and develop ideas together. We've found that it has been hugely helpful to continually reflect upon the process of our work together, as well as the content, and to build an ethic of self-care explicitly into our collaboration. For example, we've frequently discussed how the shifting cultural and political situation is echoed in the materials we've been drawing upon, and how we're personally and professionally impacted by this. Additionally we've allowed time for debriefing into all of our collaborative writing sessions and have tried to prioritize care over deadlines.

Partly for this reason, this book has been in process for longer than we originally anticipated. We would like to thank all at Polity very much for their patience and support for the project – particularly Ellen MacDonald-Kramer, Mary Savigar and Susan Beer. We believe that the book is stronger for the time that we've spent developing our ideas and carrying out additional research, in particular around newer phenomena such as phone sex apps and sex advice zines. This has also enabled us to reflect in the conclusions on some of our own experiences of producing sex advice, which we hope you'll find valuable.

The ideas in the chapters that follow are shaped by the conversations we've had together and with many other colleagues and friends and we offer some ‘thank yous’ below. First, however, we would like to express our enormous appreciation to Yvonne Ehrstein, who helped us at the final stages with preparing the manuscript, with amazing good grace, super-efficiency and unfailing good humour. Thank you Yvonne! It has been a pleasure working with you. And thank you also to the School of Arts and Social Sciences at City, University of London (especially to Kim Edmunds and Caroline Sipos), whose funding made this possible.

Meg-John would like to give a huge thank you to Justin Hancock for all his inspiration and support, and for being happy to work together on the megjohnandjustin.com project, which has been another dreamy collaboration. Many thanks also to Elli Frank for obtaining many of the online materials for the Communication and Consent chapter, and for useful discussions about these topics. Meg-John would also like to thank Petra Boynton, Lisa Downing, Feona Attwood, Clarissa Smith, Clare Bale, Emma Renold, and all the other people who were involved in the Critical Sexology, Sense About Sex, Sexualization Report, and Bad Sex Media Bingo projects, which were such important foundations for this project. And thanks, finally, to all the many activists who've helped them to think even more critically about sex over the years.

Ros would like to thank Jude Willetts, Bruna Seu, Shani Orgad, Roisin Ryan Flood, Veronica Forwood, Christina Scharff, Catherine Rottenberg, Andy Pratt, Rachel O'Neil, Sara de Benedictis, Laura Favaro, Sylvia Chant, Sarah Banet-Weiser, Beverley Dean, Chris Phipps and Ngaire Donaghue for personal and intellectual support. Thanks also to colleagues and PhD students at King's and City – and beyond. In addition, Ros would like to thank Elektra Lapavitsas for research assistance. A special thanks to students on the gender and sexualities courses and to everyone involved in the Gender and Sexualities Research Forum. Ros would also like to thank the many people who shared work ahead of publication or responded to messages on the MECCSA list-server with queries like ‘who is writing about The Undateables?’ and so on. There are too many people to thank individually, but Ros sends heartfelt appreciation, and – with Meg-John and Laura – a profound commitment to thinking about all our work as collective.

Laura would like to add her thanks for support, solidarity and collaboration to Ema Webb, Heather Mendick, Kim Allen, Jessica Ringrose, Hannah Frith, Kyla Ellis-Sloan, Tansy Hoskins, Kiran Dhami and the undergraduate students of Sex and Society at the University of Brighton.

Thanks, finally, to the reviewers for their extremely helpful comments on the book and to all the sex advisors whose work we have included. We do hope that you'll find our analyses of value.